How to Handle Bullies, Teasers and Other Meanies: A Book That Takes the Nuisance out of Name Calling and Other Nonsense
- Book Review,
by Kate Cohen-Posey
From Booklist
Gr. 4^-7. The fill-in-the-blank section may cause a few problems, but consider purchasing this anyway. It's one of a very few books that puts a practical spin on the subject. It doesn't consider bullies who shove and kick, but it has got some useful tips on how kids can use verbal techniques to turn a bully's slurs inside out. It's a bit of a stretch to think kids this age will want to start an anti-meanness club, and it's difficult to fully accept the author's suggestion that taking the sting out of bullies' words may help bullies see the error of their ways. But this is certainly a place to start when fighting back seems in order, with the ideas and the wordplays recommended giving victims just the edge they may need to begin to recoup their self-esteem. Stephanie Zvirin
Book Description
Every young person will need this book at some time in his or her life! A parent-child resource book, How to Handle Bullies, Teasers and Other Meanies covers *annoying name calling, *vicious prejudice, *explosive anger, *dangerous situations, and *causes of difficult behavior. It contains more than twelve ways for melting meanness. It uses dozens of examples and practice exercises to teach a comic approach to handling cruelty. It shows young people how to put spiritual truths in to action. It gives parents, teachers, and counselors a method to help young people help themselves with an approach that goes far beyond assertiveness in its mastery of meanness.
Card catalog description
Provides information on what makes bullies and teasers tick, how to handle bullies, how to deal with prejudice, and how to defend onesself when being teased or insulted.
From the Back Cover
Every young person will need this book at some time in his or her life! How to Handle Bullies, Teasers and Other Meanies: (a) covers annoying name calling, vicious prejudice, explosive anger, dangerous situations, and causes of difficult behavior; (b) contains more than 12 ways for melting meanness; [c] Uses dozens of dialogues and practice exercises that children enjoy reading; (d) shows young people how to put spiritual truths into action; (e) gives parents, teachers, and counselors a method to help young people help themselves. This is an approach that goes far beyond assertiveness in its mastery of meanness. Kate Cohen-Posey has combined the wisdom from her years of experience as a teacher, therapist, and parent into a unique package of communication and self-help skills for children.
About the Author
Kate Cohen-Posey is a licensed mental health counselor and marriage and family therapist practicing in central Florida since 1973. She is also the author of Trans-Formation in Everyday Life, A Shortcut to Relaxation and Problem Solving, and Brief Therapy Client Handouts. She is on the expert panel of childrentoday.com. She has presented at state and national conferences, appeared on the @Health Television Network and various radio shows, and contributed to articles for numerous magazines. She endeavors to share what she has learned from clients, colleagues, and the literature through the written word and emerging technologies.
Excerpted from How to Handle Bullies, Teasers and Other Meanies : A Book That Takes the Nuisance Out of Name Calling and Other Nonsense by Kate Cohen-Posey, Betsy A. Lampe. Copyright © 1995. Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved
How many times has a bully or teaser upset you? If you have been upset very many times, this is the book for you! You no longer have to be somebody's victim and feel terrible and you don't have to act like a bully or tease to protect yourself. In fact, you can turn someone else's annoying behavior into a game and have a good time. This book will tell you how... Suppose someone tells you, "Your mother wears combat boots." What could you do to talk person-to-person instead of bully-to-bully or bully-to-victim? Choose the best reply: (a) "So what, your mother looks like a cow!" (b) "I'm not surprised to hear that. She always has been a stylish woman."
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