7 Steps to Bonding with Your Stepchild FROM THE PUBLISHER
A Psychologist and Stepparent Shares her Secrets
Every stepparent confronts feelings of excitement, confusion, and insecurity when they become a part of a new family. Boundaries need to be established and maintained, while bonds need to be made. In this process, challenges arise in every way shape and form. How do I share emotional and physical space with my new family and how will we respect each other's privacy in our new home? How will I know if my stepchildren like me? What happens if I don't love my stepchildren? How do I make sure it doesn't appear like I am trying to replace my stepchild's biological parent? These 7 basic steps will give you the essentials, from deciding what kind of stepparent you want to be to realizing that love comes later.
Suzen Zieghan covers common stepfamily challenges and suggests realistic solutions:
* Recognize the three relationships and their natural differences-spouse and children, spouse and stepparent, and stepparent and children-and discover how they can peacefully coexist.
* Learn how to start a discussion with your stepchild and understand her view.
* Acknowledge your spouse and stepchild's previous history as a family.
* Understand the difference between being a parent and being a stepparent and consider the type of relationship you hope to develop with your stepchild.
* Find out how to enhance intimate time alone with your spouse by bonding with your stepchild!
Author Biography: Suzen J. Ziegahn is a clinical psychologist and writer specializing in stepfamily issues. She also has over twelve years of experience in the administration of mental health services, serving as Director and CEO of mental health systems in the Midwest. She works with kids and families and lives in Wisconsin.
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