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How to Argue & Win Every Time: At Home, At Work, In Court, Everywhere, Everyday

AUTHOR: Gerry Spence
ISBN: 0312144776

SHORT DESCRIPTION: Writer and attorney Gerry Spencer, who has never lost a criminal trial in his career, presents his ten laws of arguing. From using fear as an ally in public speaking to the importance of hiding emotions to learning to use words as weapons, How to...

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How to Argue & Win Every Time: At Home, At Work, In Court, Everywhere, Everyday
- Book Review,
by Gerry Spence


From Publishers Weekly
Lawyer Spence's guide to winning arguments spent 26 weeks on PW's bestseller list. Copyright 1996 Reed Business Information, Inc.


From AudioFile
Listeners expecting a step-by-step guide to winning arguments will be put off at first by the dramatic reading and shameless self-disclosure of attorney Gerry Spence. The tone of this program is more philosophical than logical. Some of the organization has a "stream-of-consciousness" quality, which confuses momentarily but eventually comes to life as part of a larger fabric of values and attitudes the author feels are essential. With sincerity, wisdom and a clear, deep voice, Spence makes us overlook the eccentricity of his language and the flamboyance of his delivery. As a course in integrity, love and talking from the heart, this program delivers in style and substance. T.W. (c)AudioFile, Portland, Maine


From Booklist
A celebrity defense lawyer who garners quantity face-time during publicity-soaked trials, Spence, as attentive O. J.-ers know, is the aw-shucks Wyomingite who hates neckties, prosecutors, bankers, and pretense in general. He also hates losing an argument, which he has rarely done in a courtroom. Here, Spence distills his bar experience into the secrets of his success and translates that into the plain language of the real world of jobs, romance, and child rearing. Spence exhorts readers to believe that the art of arguing is verily the art of living, and aversion to argumentativeness only hinders people from getting what they want. So throughout this disputation, Spence anticipates objections (which he dubs the "Lock" ) and supplies refutations (dubbed the "Key" ). Spence's overall keys to winning are to contend without being contentious, to persuade instead of overwhelming "the Other," and to always be credible. Though discursive in style, Spence's prose is pointedly sharp in essence and displays unself-consciously his own flamboyant personality. Rises above the herd in the conduct-of-life genre. Gilbert Taylor


Review
"How to Argue and Win Every Time is more than just a book about argument; it's the outline on how to live."--Larry king

Gerry Spence is one of America's last true originals--a man who thinks as brilliantly as he lives, who writes as compellingly as he talks, and who practices law as faithfully as most people practice religion."--Dan Rather



Review
"How to Argue and Win Every Time is more than just a book about argument; it's the outline on how to live."--Larry king

Gerry Spence is one of America's last true originals--a man who thinks as brilliantly as he lives, who writes as compellingly as he talks, and who practices law as faithfully as most people practice religion."--Dan Rather



Book Description
The Laws of Arguing According to Gerry Spence

1. Everyone is capable of making the winning argument.
2. Winning is getting what we want, which also means helping "others" get what they want.
3. Learn that words are a weapon, and can be used hostilely in combat.
4. Know that there is always a "biological advantage" of delivering the TRUTH.
5. Assault is not argument.
6. Use fear as an ally in pubic speaking or in argument. Learn to convert its energy.
7. Let emotions show and don't discourage passion.
8. Don't be blinded by brilliance.
9. Learn to speak with the body. The body sometimes speaks more powerfully than words.
10. Know that the enemy is not the person with whom we are engaged in a failing argument, but the vision within ourselves.



About the Author
Gerry Spence, writer and attorney, lives in Jackson Hole, Wyoming. he has never lost a criminal trial and his notable cases, including the Karen Silkwood and Randy Weaver trials, number in the hundreds. Spence served as legal correspondent for NBC TV during the O.J. Simpson trial and frequently acts as guest host on "Larry king Love." He also hosts his own weekly talk show on CNBC.



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         Book Review

How to Argue & Win Every Time: At Home, At Work, In Court, Everywhere, Everyday
- Book Reviews,
by Gerry Spence

How to Argue & Win Every Time: At Home, At Work, In Court, Everywhere, Everyday

FROM OUR EDITORS

You don't need the vocabulary of a Harvard professor to win an argument. In this book, America's most successful trial attorney shows that we were all born to make the winning argument--just as we were born to walk. Devising a surefire program that provides the power to deliver winning strategies in the bedroom, in the courtroom, and in the boardroom, Spence presents ultimately winning arguments and a few basic rules of the game. Learn how to disarm an opponent by listening to the other side; discover when to argue...and when not to; determine how to regard words as weapons; and most importantly, learn to discern the Pyrrhic victory--those times when your opponent's loss may also be yours. The ultimate resource for people who seek to convince, to bring about change, to argue, and to win, this program"...is more than just a book about argument, it's the outline on how to live."--Larry King. "Gerry Spence is one of America's last true originals..."--Dan Rather.

FROM THE PUBLISHER

How to Argue and Win Every Time is a book that teaches you how to argue in everyday life - at home, in the bedroom, with the boss, with teachers, and with your kids. But it is also a book with sweeping implications for American society, for at its heart, it proposes a new philosophy - that winning is not what you think it is and that your enemy's loss may be your loss as well. Gerry Spence, the noted trial lawyer, says we were born to make the winning argument as we were born to walk. But argument is an art as well as a technique to be learned. The winning argument starts with a mindset, one that gives you permission to argue freely when argument has been the forbidden fruit of your childhood. Spence teaches you how to get beyond the fear and to use this fear as your ally. He shows you that when your argument emerges from your own authority, the argument will not only be the winning argument, it will be unique among all arguments.

SYNOPSIS

You don't need the vocabulary of a Harvard professor to win an argument. In this book, America's most successful trial attorney shows that we were all born to make the winning argument—just as we were born to walk. Devising a surefire program that provides the power to deliver winning strategies in the bedroom, in the courtroom, and in the boardroom, Spence presents ultimately winning arguments and a few basic rules of the game. Learn how to disarm an opponent by listening to the other side; discover when to argue...and when not to; determine how to regard words as weapons; and most importantly, learn to discern the Pyrrhic victory—those times when your opponent's loss may also be yours. The ultimate resource for people who seek to convince, to bring about change, to argue, and to win, this program "...is more than just a book about argument, it's the outline on how to live."—Larry King. "Gerry Spence is one of America's last true originals..."—Dan Rather. 307 pp.


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